As 2024 comes to a close, I have spent time reflecting on my favorite Oberlin memories from the year. It’s been a busy and chaotic time, full of challenges and growth, but one thing that has grounded me is surrounding myself with people and communities that bring me joy. While I could write about so many moments, here are a few memories that highlight the sense of community I’ve experienced at Oberlin.
The Black History Month Fashion Show
One of my favorite moments this year was attending the February Black History Month Fashion Show. It was my first time going, and it exceeded my expectations. Seeing my friends model and show off the clothes they had designed was incredible. The energy in the room was electric, with music, lights, dancing, and the crowd cheering on every performance. It was a powerful celebration of Black creativity, talent, and pride, and I can’t wait for the next fashion show.
The Eclipse
Experiencing the eclipse at Oberlin last spring was unforgettable. Even before the eclipse began, the day felt special because my afternoon class and a few other obligations were canceled, which provided a much-needed break from the mid-semester chaos. I remember it being one of the first warm spring days, which was exciting for me because I love sunshine and warmth. My friends and I found a sunny patch of grass on campus, spread out blankets, and relaxed until the eclipse started. When the moment finally came, it was magical. With everyone’s busy schedules, finding time to hang out in large groups can be difficult. However, the eclipse was a day when we were all brought together.
September Soul Session
Soul Sessions are a tradition held once a month at the Afrikan Heritage House (A-house), and they have become one of my favorite Oberlin experiences. Each session is a space where people come together and share their talents. It is a place for both rehearsed and impromptu creativity and expression. I’ve seen people sing, dance, read poetry, perform monologues, play instruments, and more.
In September, there was a reunion for the Oberlin Alumni Association of African Ancestry (OA4), which included an alumni-led Soul Session. It was one of the most memorable Soul Sessions I’ve attended. Being in that room with both Black students and alums fostered a deep sense of community and connection. Hearing their stories and sharing conversations made me feel grounded and inspired. It reminded me that this place is not just about the four years you spend here but also about the lifelong relationships and connections you build.
Taiko Thanksgiving
An unexpected community I have found in school is Oberlin College Taiko (OCT). We had our version of the holiday this past Thanksgiving with an OCT potluck. Each member brought a dish to share, and we gathered for an evening filled with laughter, great conversation, and good food. It was a special time for us to get together outside our regular practices and performances and spend time together as a group to appreciate each other and the taiko community that has been built.